(Very simple formula to overcome)
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Hi Doctor,
“I wish to divorce my husband because he is fond of sex. All he knows in his life is sex and is not an ordinary desire, but marathon sex. He use to have sexual intercourse with me at least six days of the week and it may be twice a day. He does not give me rest of mind. He monitors me around.
Whenever I refused to allow him, he would beat me mercilessly. I have told him on several occasions that I am not fit for marathon sex, but he refused to listen. What should I do please, its not easy for me here!
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(Our sincere reply)
FOR THE BENEFIT OF OTHERS
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My dear, I so much understand what you're going through. Am glad you've not decided to suffer in silence. I am a man, and I understand pretty well how sex can be powerful enough to control men and push them toward doing silly things if care is not taken, not until their drive is quenched. Therefore, am now gonna advice you both as a man (Youth), a priest and a medical personnel. Wish to talk to your husband in person as well, if opportunity present itself. Now listen....
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POINT ONE:
I've heard you talk about divorce. That one isn't gonna work out because, no matter your faith, God himself and even those small gods of the land are not in support of it, except on one condition. But you still have an alternative similar to divorce (Not divorce). I can't say everything here.
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POINT TWO:
Three key things will unconsciously control your husband to demand for sex of such magnitude; knowing fully well that sex beyond 3-times a week can kill him before his time. However, If you can control those three things perfectly well, then you'll be a happy married woman in your own legally married home.
The three things are subdivided into Medical, Spiritual and social.
1.MEDICALLY:
Your husband may likely be acting under the influence of excess sex hormones in his blood stream. Human anatomy calls it testosterone. Nevertheless, this has nothing to do with sickle -cell induced priapism.
HOW DO YOU KNOW HE'S UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF TESTOSTERONE?
Pay a visit to your physician for proper diagnosis. Pretty good if you both can go together.
SOLUTION:
Short and simple, with due permission from him, bless his coffee , akamu or custard with soya beans once in a while until he start demanding for sex enhancing drugs. Legume based diets inclusive. You can even prepare a soy milk. Research has it that any man exposed to this type of diets for complete one week, will certainly record little or no sex drive at all. (The effect is temporary)
I don't recommend injections in cases of this nature except on special occasions.
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2. SPIRITUALLY:
1. He may be acting under the influence of a strange spirit. Meet your pastor.
2. He may be a genuinely called pastor struggling with EXCESS ANOINTING and FLESH!. He needs counselling. Nko unwanga se ntang mbanga?
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3. SOCIALLY
Too much alchohol ,drugs and smoking enhances sex drives like mad. He needs help!. Let's stop here for now mbok. Tutu akang mfen.
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ENJOY YOURSELF, But don't break rules!
#AkwaIbom
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