1) Unfaithfulness-: this does not begin and end with infidelity but also include failure to keep to the terms of the relationship contract. We should always endeavor to say only those things we mean and mean those things we say.
2)Tantrums:-have to do with uncontrolled outburst of anger. In every relationship, offense is inevitable. It is how we handle it that makes the difference.
3)Artificialities-: these include all false attempts to be who you are not. For example, the use of artificial breast/ buttocks, artificial complexions, among others. The rule is BE YOURSELF, because the best of anybody else's you can be will still be your worst.
4)Egocentrism-: this simply means self- centeredness. Relationship focus should be principally about the other person's interest and very little about oneself.
5) Materialism-: wealth is good. Money is good. But over concentration in them to the extent l staking ones joy in a relationship is not only evil but unwise.
By Ekerete Itina
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